在这样的科技时代,不知道安全套为何物的人,可以去撞墙了~
好吧,保险套也叫避孕套~
很多事情,我实在害怕有一天我再也不会想起,所以,我总会尽力写起来。
而,会写这篇呢,是由于一位好友在我生日时送的一个手机吊饰。
没错,那是一个装着保险套的手机吊饰。听说,里面的套,是真的能被使用。
好友送给我时,我欣然地接受。
第二天,我便把它吊在手机上。。。
有些朋友看了,都很惊讶。
我一个女孩,怎么敢如此?!不怕有色眼光吗??
老实说,我会将它吊起来,是因为听说它真的可以用,
代表它还有它的实用价值。
因为,我害怕,我会有不得不用它的情况。。。
会有这样的想法,是因为多年前的一篇报纸里的文章。
所以,详细地内容,抱歉,我已经忘了,
可是大略是说一位女子,她要出街,好像是夜街,
在她要走出门口时,她的丈夫叫住了她,给了她安全套。
当时,我想,丈夫如此开放??
其实,不是的。
作者是要通过那篇文章表达出现今社会的混乱,
报纸上处处是什么强奸案,奸杀案的。
丈夫是害怕妻子也会遭遇这样的事情,
却不想剥夺妻子的自由,
所以,倘若妻子真的遭遇这样的事情,
希望妻子不要反抗,希望那个安全套“保护”得了她,
至少不会受孕。
最重要的,是活着。。。
这种社会问题,各年龄层的女士都可能遇到,
毕竟,强奸婆婆的案件也不是没发生过。
所以,其实我觉得随身携带安全套真的比较安全,
毕竟我并不知道未来是否要靠“它”将伤害减低,
不是吗??
你的理论很特别,但可以接受。
ReplyDelete像ccm写的:I am single , and not available.
yeah~ I agree with u, we have the same way of thinking? XD
ReplyDeletewe bring it out, not because we are "espect" it to happen, it is just a normal precaution. Example, we have fire killer item, not because we especting our house to be on fire, it just a normal precaution.
Nice topic anyway, i like it very much ^^
谢谢。
ReplyDelete其实我知道自己想法被认为很奇怪。
可是,那又如何?我依然能将这一切说为特别。
只要我信任自己就好。
嗯~其实,那不代表我很有自信,
我只是知道,如果连我都不信任自己,
又如何让别人信任你呢?
Nothing is right or wrong, if really want to clarify, then I wil say that, when majority say it is right, then it become right (even it maybe wrong)
ReplyDeleteEveryone have their own way to define "right" and "wrong", impossible for u to adapting urself to different "right" and "wrong" at the same time. Since there is no way to be "right" all the time, then why not believe in what u are believing and doing? (if u really know and understand the reason u doing and believing)
Only we ourselves can know what we are doing and believing with our reasons, believe in urself rather than changing always to fix with different unknown "right or wrong" statement.
But still, we can behave and believe freely provided if only that action and believe no causing harms to self and others.
嗯~赞同。你应该看出,我们的想法还蛮贴近。
ReplyDelete不过说到伤害,
偶尔我也会害怕,我所要表达的自我与任性,
会被有心人扭曲,用来说服自己做出伤害的事情。
如果真是如此,
我不会负责。
因为,别人的意见只是参考,做决定的永远是自己。
所以,我只对我自己的人生负责。
Yeah, it is normal, i can understand...
ReplyDeleteEverytime i mention that we should believe in ourselves rather than adapting to others, it is easily to hear that "so if i love to kill people, I should believe myself and keep on do without consider others??"
It need time to explain, and people rarely have the patient to hear it. So for short, I will say that, by the time u think of wanna kill people, someone also think so and kill u already, this call ur freedom to behave urself? Same to u if u say u love to kill people, and say u are being urself? (If this work, u already die 10 years ago, no freedom u can think of at all)